The Desiderata of Happiness…

Desiderata by  Max Ehrmann is one of my favorite poems of all time. I read it for the first time in AP English in 12th grade.  It was one of those poems that left an impression. I remember thinking this, THIS is how I should live my life.  A profound thought from a 16 year old soccer player.

Yet somehow, I forgot its impact and its lessons. Maybe it’s because the words seem so natural, so simple and so logical. How could you forget to Speak your Truth or Enjoy your Achievements?   But somehow you do.

And then an old friend reminds you via Facebook of this lovely poem. You read it again. You’re reminded of its simple beauty. And yet again, it leaves an impression on your soul.

The Desiderata of Happiness…

Go placidly amidst the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its shams, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful.

Strive to be happy

2 responses to “The Desiderata of Happiness…”

  1. I’m so happy about posting today, because not only did more people read my favorite work, but now I know you have a blog!!! Love you.

    1. I love you.

      Thank you for bringing Desiderata back into my life. xoxox

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